In any large group of friends, there is always that one person that acts as the glue that keeps everyone together. Our human shaped Pritt Stick is Aaron Sloan.
I have known Aaron since I was about 20 years old having met him through my uni friends Suzan and Adrian (the same two people who are also responsible for introducing me to Keith, when he was Burchy, long before he was the husband). Aaron is the sort of person that people are drawn too; he is the most genuine, friendly and witty person you could have the pleasure of meeting. Over the years he was always instrumental in arranging nights out, get togethers and general shenanigans which ensured that our ever expanding group of friends met up for revelry, giggles and merriment on a regular basis. However, Aaron then got swallowed up by the travel bug.
After several jaunts to distant lands he eventually settled in Hong Kong and found the ying to his yang: Charlene. Since they have been together, we have had the enjoyment of getting to know Charlene, both when she has travelled back to Northern Ireland with Aaron and when Keith and I visited them in Hong Kong almost two years ago (which is without a doubt one of my favourite ever holidays!). From the get go she has just clicked into the group like a missing puzzle piece; she is funny, beautiful and smart and it’s indisputable that her and Aaron are the perfect match, so no one was surprised when they tied the knot last year. Whilst the ceremony took place in their adopted home of Hong Kong, they flew into Belfast last week for a ‘Norn Iron’ style celebration.
The evening kicked off with drinks and nibbles in the wonderfully unique Molly’s Yard which offers quality food, local beers, a superb setting and professional service. When we arrived I was delighted to see Aaron and Charlene as well as so many friendly faces I haven’t seen in (gulp!) years (probably since Aaron and Charlene’s last visit to Belfast!). It was awesome to catch up with the loveable BFG that is Adam and his epically cool wife Orla; Gavin and Lynsey, who have been setting the standards of kick ass parenting for the group since they had their little dude six years ago; the ever smiling Ryan and his adorable wife Helen, who I feel a kinship with over our shared love of social awkwardness; the effortlessly glam and super sweet Sheila and her new beau Stuart; and Dave, who not only has a wicked sense of humour but is also partly responsible for the name of this blog as he’s always referred to me as wee/little Burchy whilst Keith, of course, is the OG Burchy. As well as the mates I haven’t seen in a while, it was nice to get out with old friends and new parents Suzan and Adrian (and of course baby Ruby) as well as Johnny and Hilary who were enjoying a night off parenting duties. It was also nice to meet new faces, in particular Charlene’s parents who flew in from San Francisco, and her brother who made the trip from New York, to not only meet us all but to also explore all Belfast has to offer.
After the reception at Molly’s Yard came to a close we headed to the Barking Dog where the drinks continued to flow and good food was enjoyed by all. We had an amazing space to ourselves and so once the meal was done and dusted, there was dancing, a bit of a sing song and just generally good craic into the wee hours.
As the celebrations came to an end, I can honestly say it was no surprise that so many people would turn out to celebrate (in legendary style) the union of Mr & Mrs Sloan, who, even though they live so far away, continue to act as the glue that keeps bringing us all back together.