In Conversation: The Unmumsy Mum Diary 

Blogger and author Sarah Turner in conversation with BBC Radio Ulster’s Kerry McLean at the Belfast Book Festival. 

The Belfast Book Festival is jam packed with a fantastic mix of events and last night my sister and I were excited to get to experience one of them first hand: In Conversation with Sarah Turner, author of The Unmumsy Mum Diary at the Crescent Arts Centre

Sarah, whose blog The Unmumsy Mum has gone from strength to strength, has just published her second book: The Unmumsy Mum Diary. She was joined on stage by BBC Radio Ulster’s Kerry McLean to discuss what inspired her to start the blog, how she moved into the world of writing books and what’s next for The Unmumsy Mum. 

From the start it was very clear that Sarah Turner is naturally warm, funny and engaging; it’s not a surprise so many readers have been entertained by her musings, whether on paper or online, or that so many mothers have found her relatable. 

One theme that ran throughout the evening was, as Sarah coins them, ‘glossy mums’, who seem to have the perfect life, versus ‘truthful mums’, who admit that having a child is wonderful but they also come with many moments that will try you on every level. Of her inspiration to start the blog, Sarah said: “For me it was an outlet to venture the frustration of motherhood. I felt I was massively screwing it up.” Although I don’t have kids myself, when my neice was born I got a glimpse of how competitive fellow mothers can be and how that can have a detrimental effect, especially on new mothers. I think for a long time the ‘glossy mum’ blogs, which Sarah admits she does enjoy, ruled the online world, and so when The Unmumsy Mum came along it was a refreshing and comforting read that showed women that there is no one right way to parent, instead it’s best to follow your own gut, do what works for you and if you make mistakes, learn from them and move on. Women, especially those in the public eye, are constantly being judged whether it’s their looks, their lifestyle or their parenting skills and so it is restorative to find someone who doesn’t use their very public platform to do that to others, instead Sarah Turner says things most mothers can relate to but felt they couldn’t admit to. 

Another subject that Sarah and Kerry touched upon was the inequality in the perception between mothers and fathers. Whilst Sarah remarked that when she has a work engagement, people wouldn’t think twice of asking what she had done with her children, whereas the thought of asking a male in the workplace the same question seems rather absurd. Likewise both Sarah and Kerry touched upon how their other halves at times feel people who see them on their own with their children treat them like glorified babysitters, asking if they are giving mummy a break, rather than treating them as an equal parent who is doing their part to raise their children. 

Although my perception of raising children is from an auntie’s perspective, I found Sarah Turner, both the woman and the author, inspirational. Whilst many people like to edit their lives online, Sarah is brutally honest, which is incredibly brave. She has faced backlash from critics, such as from tabloid stories, as well as in comments from people who read those stories. However that doesn’t deter Sarah from sharing her life with her readers, and I distinctly got the impression that many women at this event were delighted for that. As a trying-to-be blogger myself it was also inspirational to hear Sarah’s story of how her blog went viral leading to a book offer from her publishers, as well as how she has remained steadfast on not doing sponsored posts so she can keep the blog true to her and her style of blogging. 

As the event came to a close, I had a smile on my face. The rapport between Sarah and Kerry was captivating; both are fascinating women who come across as very open and honest and as a result it seriously felt like spending an evening with friends. If you have tiny humans of your own, are thinking about having some down the line or just enjoy a giggle, I can’t recommend Sarah Turner’s The Unmumsy Mum blog or books enough! 

The Belfast Book Festival runs until 17 June. Check out the rest of the programme at: https://www.belfastbookfestival.com

Visit The Unmumsy Mum blog at: http://theunmumsymum.blogspot.co.uk

Posted: 15/06/2017

The Belfast Book Festival Family Fun Day

It’s not every weekend that we get a sunny Saturday and so it was my mission to get out and about today to make the most of it. Thankfully the Belfast Book Festival is in town and today saw it host a family fun day in Lower Crescent Park. 

I tagged along with my sister Gail, bro-in-law Alan and niece Rachel to see what all was on offer. After entering through an arch welcoming us to The Emerald City, it was clear from the start it was going to be pretty magical. In addition to Dorothy and Co bringing a taste of Oz to south Belfast, there was also storytelling sessions with local authors, facepainting, craft stalls and food stands to enjoy. 

After walking the yellow brick road and getting her face painted with glittery flowers, Rachel wad delighted to receive a free lolly, which was almost the size of her head, from a sweetie van. Sugar rush unleashed it was time to enter the storytelling tent to hear about the adventures of Fitzy-Foo before checking out what books and crafts were on sale. With a signed copy of Annie Holmes’ Katherine of Carrick purchased, it was time to enjoy some food whilst listening to music and soaking up some sunshine. 

As someone who loves reading, I love when the Belfast Book Festival comes to town. With over 100 live events and workshops taking place until 17 June, there’s some for everyone. From My Back Pages: An Evening with Bob Dylan, which combines live music and readings to The Unmumsy Mum Diary, a conversation with blogger and award winning author Sarah Turner, as well as festival favourite The Lifeboat poetry readings, plus so much more, the offerings are so rich and diverse the only problem you will have is deciding what to go to. For younger readers, the creative workshops help encourage a love of reading and writing whilst today’s family day was such a fabulous and fun way to introduce children to books as well as to feed the obsession for those who already are little bookworms. With if you’ve a love of words, be sure to check out the Festival whilst you can!

The Belfast Book Festival runs until 17 June. For the full programme visit: https://www.belfastbookfestival.com

Posted:10/06/2017

Review: The Ice Beneath Her

I am a huge fan of Jo Nesbø and so when my BFF Bronagh gave me a copy of The Ice Beneath Her by acclaimed Swedish author Camilla Grebe, I was definitely intrigued. 
The tale, set in Stockholm at winter, finds the local police called to investigate a shocking murder: an unidentified woman is found beheaded in a posh suburban house, owned by controversial chain-store CEO Jesper Orre. What makes the case more disturbing is the similarities it bears to an unsolved case from ten years ago. As homicide detectives Peter Lindgren and Manfred Olsson delve into the case and search for motive, they enlist the help of brilliant criminal profiler Hanne Lagerlind-Schön. However the police aren’t the only ones on Jesper’s trail. Two months before the murder, Emma Bohman, a young clerk who works for Orre’s company, encountered the charming CEO by chance, and soon romance blossomed. However after Orre abandons her and her life goes from bad to worse, she believes her former lover is to blame for the disintegration of her life and so sets about tracking him down. 

The Ice Beneath Her is hailed as a psychological thriller and for me, it did not disappoint. The story is told by three people: Peter Lindgren, Hanne Lagerlind-Schön and Emma Bohman. I found the interweaving of the three strands of the same tale a compelling narrative technique. Whilst there is reason to question the reliability of each narrator, I was fully absorbed in the book to see how the case would be resolved as well as the impact it would have on each of the narrators. 

As this multi-layered tale begins to unravel, Camilla Grebe’s perfectly nuanced writing style had me truly hooked. The book is fast but perfectly paced and has twists that take you by surprise. The Nordic setting and weather is also very much a character of this book. Everytime I opened it, I was transported from a rarely sun soaked Belfast to the dark, bone aching cold of Stockholm. As the setting is smothered in blankets of snow, the anxiety level of the book was ratcheted up to a new level. 

The Ice Beneath Her is a very visual, bold and exciting novel. The tale it tells is not black and white, instead the truth is often as hidden as Stockholm beneath the snow. Grebe is an exceptional storyteller who knows how to keep her reader on the edge of their seats. With a brutal crime and an intriguing cast of characters scrambling to reach the truth, Grebe has crafted a thriller that is very difficult to put down. Fans of crime fiction, Nordic or otherwise, should definitely check it out. 

Posted: 12/05/2017

#AnswerTheCall with No Alibis

Today is the one year anniversary of when I started this blog and so it seems very fitting that on this day I attended the #AnswerTheCall with No Alibis event, which was held at the Black Box, Belfast.  It is fitting because the #AnswerTheCall series sees Bushmills® Irish Whiskey partnering with creators, thinkers, artists, entrepreneurs and adventurers to celebrate their stories and inspire others to fulfil their true calling.
For as long as I can remember I have always wanted to write. As a child I had a notebook bursting with weird and colourful short stories. As I got older, I always wanted a career than incorporated working with words, and so I was over the moon when I got a job at Ulster Taler magazine. Although my daily work involves writing and editing, I found that as I have gotten older, writing in my spare time has seriously dwindled, and so I started the blog a year ago with the aim that it would help me find a discipline to write on a regular basis; a year and 89 posts later, I am very proud to say Little Burch is still growing and that I have stuck to my goal of at least one post a week.

Like my inspiration to start a blog, all ideas, no matter how big or small, need to start somewhere and once upon a time, 400 years ago, the Old Bushmills Distillery™ was also just starting out on its own journey, which was to be one of the first distilleries in the world to make both single malt and blended Irish whiskey. This innovation and fearlessness, which has saw the distillery grow, evolve and stay true to its roots, has inspired the launch of the #AnswerTheCall campaign. Not only does this campaign shine a light on Bushmills’ superior produce, today for example, guests were treated to a delectable serving of BLACK BUSH® and white lemonade as well as a smooth and rich BLACK BUSH® Old Fashioned cocktail, but it also aims to showcase the talents and stories of those who have defied convention to boldly answer their call and create a legacy of their own. True to this mission, today’s event in the #AnswerTheCall series, entitled Whiskey & Words, could not have found a better subject than David Torrans, owner of No Alibis Bookstore.

BLACK BUSH® Old Fashions

No Alibis is Northern Ireland’s only specialist crime bookstore as well as one of the country’s few surviving independent bookstores. On a personal level I stumbled across the shop when I studied an American Noir module at Queen’s University Belfast. A number of the titles on the curriculum were available in the shop and I, to this day, remember going in armed with my list of required reading and encountering David for the first time. He offered me tea and Viennese Whirls whilst he took my list off me and gathered up all the reading materials I required. Instantaneously it was obvious that this was a shop unlike any other and David Torrens was a book seller like no other; not only is he passionate and knowledgeable about literature but he has also created a unique and inviting environment in which all literature aficionados are welcome to talk books, to get a recommendation of authors they might like as well as to consume their latest read in a nook away from the hustle and bustle of day to day living. Since my first visit, I have been back to the shop time and again, not only to buy books and soak up the unique atmosphere, but also to attend several of the events David has hosted over the years; from local writers such as Stuart Neville to international bestsellers like Linwood Barclay and literary legends like James Ellroy, No Alibis has attracted some of the most influential names in modern literature.

Ian Sansom (left) in conversation with No Alibis’ owner and entrepreneur David Torrans at the Whiskey & Words event, part of Bushmills’ #AnswerTheCall campaign

Whilst the events David hosts offer the perfect chance for readers to find out more about the journey of some of their favourite authors, today’s event, which saw David in conversation with professor, journalist and one of my favourite authors and columnists, Ian Sansom, offered the opportunity for the audience to find out more about David’s journey. From 1990 David was a dedicated bookseller but in 1997 he took the risk to venture out on his own and start his own bookstore. Inspired by the iconic The Mysterious Bookshop and Partners in Crime Mystery Booksellers, to name a few, David knew he wanted to start a bookstore that focused primarily on the crime genre, and so No Alibis was born in 1997. Twenty years later No Alibis is still standing and although the intervening years have featured good times as well as tough times, David has successfully continued to grow and evolve the business whilst blazing his own trail and creating the bookstore he always dreamt of.

The Whiskey and Words instalment of #AnswerTheCall series was a truly inspiring event that highlights that, like Bushmills Irish Whiskey and David Torrans, you should not let people stand in your way when it comes to embarking on your own journey to follow your passions, achieve your dreams and answer your own call.

For more information on the #AnswerTheCall series, which will collaborate with other local talents such as; Whitehead based tattoo artist Willy G, one of Belfast’s best known street artists, Visual Waste, and Kevin Pyke, owner of Derry based Pyke ‘n’ Pomme, an acclaimed street food style eatery, visit: http://answerthecall.co.uk

Posted: 23/04/2017

Review: The Missing 


I love a good ‘who done it’ and so when my sister recommended The Missing by C. L. Taylor, I was more than intrigued. The book tells the story of the Wilkinsons. When fifteen year old Billy Wilkinson goes missing in the middle of the night, his mother Claire, understandably, is distraught. She blames herself for her son’s disappearance but then, so it seems, does every member of Billy’s family. When Claire and her husband Mark make a six month appeal to the media, things go horribly wrong and the terrifying truth of Billy’s disappearance begins to surface. Claire is sure that Billy is still alive and that her family had nothing to do with his disappearance – a mother’s instinct is never wrong – or is it?

This is the first book I have read by C. L. Taylor and I have to admit I loved it from start to finish. The story is told from Claire Wilkinson’s perspective. I thought this was a clever storytelling tool as the reader discovers the truth to Billy’s disappearance alongside his mother, and as a result the emotions Claire experiences are easily transferable to the reader, making the journey much more affecting. It would have been easy for Claire to have been a weak character but instead she is a strong female, who after experiencing such a personal tragedy as the loss of her son, goes on a journey of not only discovering what happened to Billy but also a journey of self discovery. 

What is also immediately apparent from C. L. Taylor’s storytelling is that she is incredibly masterful at creating layered and realistic characters. As Claire’s suspicions are raised about the capabilities of each member of the family, including her own capacity to do harm, Taylor subtly reveals the flaws and secrets that this family, who are supposed to know each other better than anyone else, have been keeping hidden from each other. This worked in two ways: it made the characters more relatable and also helped ramp up the suspense. 

From the outset of this book, I was immediately engrossed to find out what happened to Billy Wilkinson. The Missing is an exceptional psychological thriller than plays with your head. By establishing such a strong link with Claire, the reader is left constantly questioning and doubting each and every one of Billy’s family members. The book is also filled with twists and turns that kept me guessing right to the end. The Missing is a fabulously paced and crafted thriller which has totally made me a want to read more works by C. L. Taylor. 

Posted: 17/01/2017

The Library 

Top: President of Ireland Michael D Higgins. Middle: Poet Sinéad Morrissey; Linen Hall Director Julie Andrews. Bottom: Guests at the reception; The High Sheriff of Belfast Alderman Jim Rodgers, Tim McGarry and Chris Sherry; pupils from Holy Cross and Campbell College Prep.

It’s not every day you get invited to be in the same room as the president of a country and so yesterday I was very honoured, privileged and, if I am honest, a little starstruck, when I was asked to attend a reception at Belfast’s Linen Hall Library for poet, writer and President of Ireland, Michael D. Higgins

I travelled to the event, which was held in Linen Hall’s coffee shop, with Ulster Tatler‘s Editor Chris Sherry. Although we arrived slightly early, the room was already buzzing with people. We spotted such people as US Consul General Daniel James Lawton, Irish writer Brian Keenan and musician Neil Martin. We spoke briefly to the lovely Samantha McCombe, Linen Hall’s first ever female librarian, who welcomed us to the library. We also bumped into The High Sheriff of Belfast Alderman Jim Rodgers and comedic genius Tim McGarry. 

After a catch up, which included Tim and Chris reminiscing about their time studying in the Linen Hall Library during their school days, the man of the moment, President Higgins, arrived. To welcome him to the Library, pupils from Holy Cross and Campbell College Prep performed a gorgeous choral piece. Following this, Linen Hall Director Julie Andrews welcomed Belfast’s inaugral Poet Laureate and T. S. Eliot Prize winner, Sinéad Morrissey to read her poem, ‘The Millihelen’, for the President and guests. Whilst not every poet is a born performer, Sinéad Morrissey is a natural and her powerful words and rendition had the audience completely captivated. 

After this stunning performance, Julie Andrews passed the platform over to President Higgins. As he got to the stage to a rapturous round of applause, he was very charming and humourous in greeting the audience. Though softly spoken, he had the audience attentively hanging on his every word. As a former Minister for the Arts, Culture and the Gaeltecht, he was more than qualified to discuss libraries and why they are still important in today’s society. I think he perfectly summed this up with a quote from Norman Cousins: “A library, to modify the famous metaphor of Socrates, is the delivery room for the birth of ideas, a place where history comes to life.” I had not heard this before, but what could be a more apt sentiment when thinking of Linen Hall Library, a place that not only houses works by such literary icons as Seamus Heaney, but also housed the man himself as Heaney was a member of the Library. 

I have always been a huge fan of libraries and this event helped remind me of all the things that make them so great. As well as a haven for book worms, they also are a place of support and nourishment for those creating works, whether literary greats or budding writers. If you haven’t been to Linen Hall Library before, I can’t recommend it enough, even if you just pop in to the coffee shop, which has a stunning view of Donegall Square. As well as welcoming staff, this really is a place that enlightens, and through the books it houses can truly transport you to another time and place.

Posted: 28/10/2016

Review: Rogue Lawyer 


Before I wanted to be a journalist, I wanted to be a lawyer. Not only do I get a thrill when I argue a point I believe to be right (if in doubt ask Keith), but from a very young age I was beguiled by the writings of John Grisham. I scoured the library shelves during every visit to see if they had any new works I hadn’t yet devoured. To this day, The Client, which I first read at about 13 years-old, is still one of my favourite books. And who could blame me for idolising the savvy character of Reggie Love, who goes above and beyond to protect her 11 year old client, who finds himself pursued by the Mafia. 

As I’ve got older, my personal desire to be a lawyer has been quenched (a decision cemented after court reporting as a trainee journalist highlighted that not every day in court is as exciting as in a Grisham novel), however I still love nothing more than escaping into the stories crafted by this award-winning author. 

Recently I finished Grisham’s latest release Rogue Lawyer. The protagonist, Sebastian Rudd, is a lawyer who takes the cases no else wants: the drug-addled punk accused of murdering two little girls; a crime lord on death row; a homeowner who shot a SWAT team. However, when Sebastian is asked to represent Arch Swanger, the prime suspect in the abduction and presumed murder of 21 year-old Juliana Kemp, he unwittingly finds himself the keeper of a terrible secret, one that will threaten everything he holds dear. 

I adored this book. Sebastian is a captivating character. He is hated by the local police, by his ex wife and even by some of his clients. However, Sebastian relishes in making other people dislike him, not only does he love a fight, in and out of the court, but generally when he has someone riled, it means he is doing his job right. What I loved the most about him though is that Sebastian is an utterly genuine character. Whilst it’s easy to presume someone’s innocence or guilt, Sebastian does not judge, he defends each client with a dedicated and unwavering passion. He doesn’t let public opinion sway how well he does his job. Additionally, throughout the novel it is apparent how loyal Sebastian is. He will use situations that could benefit him personally, to help clients he believes in. He also will also put himself out of pocket to help people he has history with. 

As well as a complex and intriguing protagonist, Rogue Lawyer is an exceptionally constructed novel. As the novel progresses, Grisham weaves together the stories of several of Sebastian’s clients. Each case is in its own way thrilling, which not only snares your attention but leaves you wanting to find out how it concludes. I won’t lie, I was so invested in the Renfro case, I did something I don’t usually do, and skipped forward because I desperately wanted to know how it was resolved.

Rogue Lawyer is a rip-roaring novel from start to finish. By displaying Sebastian Rudd’s interaction with his clients, who face deviating charges and hail from contrasting backgrounds, as well as his relationship with his ex wife and his son Starcher, and his connection with his body guard/paralegal Partner, Grisham creates a protagonist, who on the surface you should hate, but once you get to know him, you can’t help but be won over by his roguish charm. Throw in a truly loathsome villain in the shape of Arch Swanger, and Rogue Lawyer is a brilliant novel, that will take you on a roller-coaster of a ride that entertains from start to finish. 

Posted: 17/10/2916